14 February 2013
On Grey's Anatomy tonight Bailey said, "I don't want to make myself small. If I stay here I'll have to keep making
You can always tell the woman's touch in the writing of Grey's. There's always a good quote that makes me think about how I feel about things.
How often do we make ourselves smaller just to keep the peace. I won't be honest, I won't speak my mind just to avoid an argument. I won't show how happy I am or mention my good news because some people may feel insecure about it. I won't look like I enjoy myself too much. Won't bring too much attention to myself. Really, I'll just stop being me.
Do we always have to leave situations where we're made to feel small? If we stay, how can we stay and keep some sort of balance? Maybe the people who keep challenging us, taunting us to be small are really here to remind us to be our big selves, our true selves, our full selves. We need to stop being small because it doesn't work anyway.
No person in an abusive relationship has ever stopped the abuse by being quiet.